The Happy Birthday Song

birthday cake

Ever felt the dread of having “Happy Birthday” sung to you in a crowded restaurant? Join me as I share my journey of escaping this annual tradition that has haunted me since childhood. From tears to triumph, discover why I finally decided to advocate for my own birthday bliss—and why a simple check-in could make all the difference in celebrating our special days.

TEN comments that people make when they find out I’m Autistic

Rini sitting outside with a cup of coffee in Sheffield, Tasmania

Telling people I’m Autistic has resulted in a variety of reactions and responses. Here are the top ten comments I’ve had over the years. I hope this article will prepare other Autistic individuals for their “coming out”, and educate neurotypical people about what Autism is (and isn’t!)

Being Autistic

Rini standing in front of Mount Roland wearing a blue hat and cashmere sweater

An open and honest account of my life as an Autistic woman. I want to share my experiences and what being diagnosed at 50 years old has meant to me. I hope it will contribute to a greater understanding of Autistic people in general and help to erase the stigma that can be associated with […]